I can’t wear heels at all, and never have been able to. I guess half inch back as a teenager, but I’m notoriously clumsy without heels; I’d break my neck or leg with them.
I am so, so sorry.
My mom literally lives in heels, so I grew up with that as a bit of an expectation. Thankfully I was able to shirk that “ladies wear heels” BS and now I only wear them when I enjoy them or the feeling they give me. I started off my career wearing heels every day cause I thought I “should” but that got old pretty fast . Now they’re something for fun on special occasions, not a chore which is nice. And it saves me a lot of money not buying 20 pairs a year!
Me too. Luckily I’m tall so have never felt the need to wear them.
That’s so awful. I’m truly sorry.
My mom did as well, and so did my sister. Really tall ones. When it became my turn, it didn’t work. I have very weird, wide feet that aren’t even the same size. Sigh.
Me, too! Well, I’m only 5’ 10”, but when I was a teenager, that was tall.
Excuse you that is tall! “Only” 5’10”
My husband is 6’3 and my son is 6’5. They tower over me.
I’m only 5’8” but that’s still tall enough for me.
Eldest DS was taller than me by the time he was 14, youngest DS took a little longer, maybe 16 or 17.
I am 6 feet tall. When I started work on Capitol Hill I absolutely wore heels, becasue that is was what I just knew ladies were supposed to wear professionally. And at that time, most did. But men on Capitol Hill seemed natoriously short - so I felt like the Jolly Green Giant walking the halls. But I wore them. Until I had a baby, my feet grew half a size, and I gained a whole bunch of weight because I stopped nursing and went back to work at the same time (stupid move).
Things definately seem more casual now than then (2004). But I definatley had a small town, southern percpetion of how you dress for things. I got to fly first class to Taiwan one time and bought travel friendly business clothes because that IS what I assumed you wear in first class. I was shocked when other colleagues came out in shorts and tshirts ready for sleep.
You people….
I’m 5’4” and perfectly average for adult US female height thank you very much
That is very tall! And even more so in heels!
My husband is 5’10" and never minded if I wore heels. That is how i knew he was a keeper.
You’re about the height of both of my daughters. I expected my daughters to be tall, but, nope!
I avoid heels like the plague. If I am ever going to HAVE to wear them, I’ve told my friend Jesus (aka Miss Shuga Cain for Drag Race fans) that I need lessons in walking in heels before I have to.
I can wear heels - thank you, U S Navy and your 3" dress shoes (and 3 hour inspections).
I’m much more happier in Birks even tho I’m all of 5 ft tall. You know that show are you smarter than a 5th grader? I’m not taller than a 5th grader but that’s ok cuz good things come in short packages.
I can’t say small packages because like Norm, I’m at my ideal weight if I were a foot taller.
However, I do like colorful shoes.
I destroyed my shins as a young person and haven’t been able to wear heels ever since (well wear them and still be able to walk without pain the next day).
I suffered from horrible shin splints when I was marching and even decades later they will be angered if I run in crappy flat shoes (hello Keds) or attempt to wear a heel over an inch or so. Heck, if I try to wear anything higher than an inch my dh will point out the futility of me attempting to walk in them, and the pain I will be causing myself by doing so.
So flats, loafers, sandals and low heeled boots are my go tos.
Thank you. He was fine but it was super scary.