When I was trying to pick dates for my trip, I compiled crowd data from the last 3 years from Touring Plans (TP) and Kenny the Pirate (KtP). I’ve copied a screenshot of the relevant weeks for you at the bottom.
When looking at this, keep in mind that Thanksgiving is a week later this year, so all those 8-10 numbers should be a week later. I would guess the crowd levels will be in the 4-6 range for both weeks you are considering.
“Jersey Week” leads into the first weekend you are considering (Nov 10). Also, Veterans Day is Nov 11, so crowds may be higher than expected for a Monday (as shown on TP’s crowd levels).
The 2019 dates are in the middle (N2 = November 2nd), TP crowds are on top, and KtP crowds are on bottom. The “MEHA” rows are the specific park crowd levels, and the unlabeled row is the average of all 4.