Hello friends! I thought I’d do a proper trip report for this unexpected trip.
Background
My mom works from home as a professor at a big online university. They do their graduation and staff working retreat someplace fun every year. This year’s event just happens to be at WDW and Coronado Springs. I’ve been helping her make plans for this trip for months. She says she’s “not really a Disney person” but I did convince her to arrive a couple of days before the work events start so she can experience a bit of Disney. Her original plan was to arrive two nights early so she could spend a full day at Epcot. I was pretty confident that I’d made some suggestions that would convince her that Disney isn’t an Evil Corporate Empire and that Walt Disney World isn’t Just For Kids.
She did ask all of us to join her, and we were tempted, but our oldest son is in middle school now, and he really can’t miss school for trips anymore. Plus, we didn’t have the money for a big family trip. I also regretfully declined her offer for me to join her on my own. We had a wonderful (first-ever) family trip to WDW in February 2014, and then I splurged on a solo trip to go back in November 2014. That solo trip was an amazing once in a lifetime experience.
(The trip report is here, SallyEppcot's Trip Thread (Nov 2014), in case you’re interested.)
We live far enough away that trips to WDW need to be special and infrequent. 2014 was our Disney year, and I didn’t want to go back without my boys. Waiting until we could all go again as a family was important to me.
I think I’ve been pretty good about being all grown-up and mature about this!
Then I realized that her work trip is the week of my birthday. My Mom is going to be at WDW on my birthday, and she would let me stay in her room. No. I would be strong. I shouldn’t go.
Then she added some time at Hollywood Studios the morning before her work stuff starts. No. I shouldn’t go.
Then she upgraded her pre-work room from POFQ to Beach Club. Geez. I’ve always wanted to stay at the Beach Club. It’s like a second home for some of my best Liner friends! No. I shouldn’t go.
Then she started talking about new and unexplained mobility issues. She downplayed it for a while, but finally got answers from her doctor just last week. She has a torn meniscus in her knee, a possible torn MCL, severe arthritis and a Baker’s cyst. She really can’t walk more than a few hundred steps a day, and hasn’t been able to do stairs since Christmas. She is required to this trip for the work, and it’s too late for her to cancel the extra days at the beginning. She said not to worry, and that she’d just rent an EVC or a wheelchair…by herself…in a place she knows nothing about…a place that requires more walking than anyone realizes until they’ve actually been there.
Yikes. Oh. This changes things. I finally realized that my mom needs me. The Disney Fates were telling me to stop being a martyr and just go. My husband agreed. My boys agreed.
I asked Mom if she’d like some help, and she was so relieved. She bought my plane ticket and added me to her room reservation. I guess I’m going to Disney World next week!
To be continued…