this is likely a stupid question but how do you add meeting merida in fairytale garden to a touring plan?
Unfortunately, it's not one of the options from the list, so you'll need to add it like you would a break.
second dumb question but where is fairytale garden
It's in Fantasyland, very close to the teacups. From the teacups, head back towards the castle and it's on your right.
If you are in the hub, facing the castle, take the "spoke" that is like a 2 o'clock position, and it will be on your left after you cross the bridege, walking towards Fantasyland,