Masks with a 2 year old

Well, I mentioned it to DW recently and she did not shoot lasers out of her eyes this time. I am hoping for June, but also November as a backup (or solo trip if June works with the family). I’m registered for the Wine & Dine races in November with St Jude. I think that has a good chance of getting canceled again though. I’ll definitely update everyone when something is on the books. Oh wait, if you know me, you know I’ve already booked it all (shhhh, don’t tell DW).

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Hey! Sounds like progress to me!

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I teach special ed and have a class of 6 who are all wonderfully compliant about masks.

Things we advised parents to do in preparing them that have really helped…

1 - Select masks that have characaters/colors/etc. that your child likes. If possible, let them pick them out (or help do so).
2 - Be positive about it! Your child is going to pick up on your attitude and if you are saying stuff like “I know you’re probably not going to like this, but…” odds are high they won’t like it and will resist.
3 - Practice at home!! Start with very short stints in the mask and gradually increase the time - you do this as well to model it.
4 - Praise them when they do wear it. You might have to do stickers or something - help it be fun!!

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Our DD1 will be 2 by the time we go to WDW in late May. We are a little concerned because toddlers are unpredictable. I really do believe the age should be at least 3 and probably 5 would make the most sense. My kids don’t consistently obey until 5 years of age.

That said, DD1 has recently been happy to wear her Minnie mask and even requests it whenever we stop the car to get out at a store, etc. It’s kind of dystopian, to be honest. :joy:

My DD is young enough and small enough that I’m sure CMs may simply presume she is 1 if she for some reason refuses to wear a mask. But we will try to be as compliant as possible.

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I wholeheartedly agree with this. I think the WHO recommendation is age 5 for those exact reasons and the developmental ability to consistently wear it correctly. The rule in MA is that under 5 is recommended with parental discretion and I think that’s the way to go. My son just turned 5 and wore his very consistently as a 4 year old, but sometimes things happen. Plus why do the kids suck on the freaking mask!!??

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If I still had a little (my little is 5 now :sob:) I would do some test runs. Depending on weather, something like a long trail or park walk with masks on and see how it goes.

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I agree with you 100%!! At 2, you can’t reason with them to help them understand the why behind them wearing the masks. They can’t think “oh this is for everyone else, not me. Yay selflessness!!” It’s just developmentally most two year olds (especially just turned two year olds!) aren’t at a point to understand the directive.

To answer the original question, I think it depends on your kid. Maybe make some trail runs to the local zoos when the weather starts to heat up and test the masks there. Then you could have a better idea of how DD will handle it. My kids tolerated masks a lot better than I was anticipating last month so maybe she will be the same. My youngest is 4.5 though so big difference. Is DD2 an older 2 or younger 2? That’d play a bit part into how well she can understand the rule and how important it is that she keeps it.

It is pretty easy to plan mask breaks in the parks so maybe after the zoo trip or whatever test run you choose you can figure out her tolerance window. If it’s 1.5 hours then plan to take a snack break every hour and half in the parks. It’s probably not a lot more stopping than you’d be doing normally with a gaggle of small children - especially if she’s sitting out on rides due to RS with the older two.

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@NoBellePrizeWinner, in case you are interested in more details on how it went for us before making your decision, here is our trip report: The Non-Disney-Regulars Trip During Covid - Sep 19-25 2020 Trip Report

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Oh! And I forgot to mention, temperature checks made my little guy freak out. He didn’t understand why strangers were pointing something so close to his head. By the end of the trip, we found the best technique was to carry him and have them scan the back of his neck below his ear. He did not even notice!

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Your lucky. We have the opposite problem. My DS will be 19 months when we go in a few weeks (if we don’t cancel) and he is very tall and looks like he is an older 2. I am worried I will have to bring his birth certificate around with me.

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I went in October with my (then) 4 year old and my (then) 23 month old. DD4 wore hers without problem but she wears hers at daycare often (though not as much as I’d like). I brought masks for DS but he was pretty adamant about not wearing them. However, he has worn them when I’ve told him he absolutely has to (like when we fed the giraffes at our local zoo). I did take several breaks with the kids. They want to snack pretty much nonstop anyhow. So long as you are not moving, kids (and adults) are free to pull down their masks to eat and drink. So we’d find a spot a little ways away from the crowds and have a bag of goldfish or drink a chocolate milk.

I also had some cast members just ask me how old DS was when they saw us and saw he didn’t have a mask. I’d tell them 23 months and they said okay. I didn’t have to lie, but since I am also in the camp of kids shouldn’t be mandated until 5, I wouldn’t tell on anyone who fudged their kid’s age a bit…

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No one ever asks the age of children. At least in my experience and observations. It would be poor PR to interrogate a guest :crazy_face:. I know when my children were younger they always looked older and I worried I’d be asked for a ticket for them, but 4 children over 20 years and never had a CM ask their age.

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Very much this. FWIW, our 2YO (also a girl) had zero issues. We thought she would, but I think once we got her a couple and she saw them as accessories, she was sold and liked wearing them…all day…

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My son was 2 years 8 months when we went in November (which I only mention because there is a ton of development that happens between 2 years 0 month and 2 years 11 month, right?)

Despite our best intentions to practice at home, we went from only wearing masks at the store for short trips to wearing all the time at Disney. He did phenomenally until about… day 7 or 8, I think? After that it went quickly downhill. He’d wear it for spurts, but frequently had “I don’t want to wear a mask!” meltdowns, both in the hotel room before we left and in the parks. Days 8-10 were particularly tough. We took lots of snack breaks. Including some in the stroller while we booked it out of the park with the stroller canopy over him, hoping to avoid reprimands. All the fight was out of us on the way home and he barely wore it all the whole flight home.

I’m SO glad we went when we did, especially with the announcement about DME, but I might have done a shorter trip if I had realized it would be so difficult at the end. After all, 7 days at Disney is still a great length for a trip.

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My 18 month old is huge - we went in November when she was 16 months and had several people ask if she was 2. They’re definitely asking but didn’t ask to see proof when we told them she was 1.

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This has been a huge question for us. We have been delaying any trip down partially because of the 2 and older rule. Every 2 year old is a different animal. Just look no further than potty training.

We have a 2 year old that finds it fun to wear a mask for about 5 minutes and then won’t do it anymore. Unfortunately, we will be delaying a trip to WDW until either the mask rule is gone or until she matures enough to wear it for the full day.

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Unless you already have masks that you know fit her well, I would recommend trying several different brands to find ones that fit the best (and bring a few different types as backups in case what seemed the best for a trial at home rubs her wrong after full days of use). I’ve found that some masks sold as toddler masks seem to be more geared to the size of an 8 year old than my tiny kiddos! I’ve also been watching several you tube videos w/ my kids of people wearing masks in the parks and pointing it out and talking about it. If she doesn’t like having it on, start by practicing wearing it while doing something fun that may distract from it - playing in the yard, w/ her dolls, watching a show, reading a book, etc. Good luck!

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The sizing of the masks is DEFINITELY an issue. My 5 year old is teeny tiny - less than 30 pounds, doesn’t even register on the the percentile growth charts, and all the kids size masks are enormous, except oddly the size small Disney masks. They fit him.

I think that possibly seeing every other person around wearing one will help your 2 yr old comply. Little kids like to imitate others.

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These are the masks we found first in child-size and they are the only ones my daughters keep going back to. They wore them at WDW in August (age 3 and 7) without complaint and wear them to school/daycare every day this school year. They appear to be comfortable as the kids never complain about them. And, if handwashed at night they will drip-dry by morning.