We are in the Philly suburbs and road trip to the far side of Ohio about 1-2x/year (in before times) to see friends, so not opposed to a good trip in the minivan.
Dh would often muse over the years about driving to WDW instead of flying. Since I want every second of my vacation to be in the bubble, I vetoed his suggestions. In 2011 I relented as we were cruising on DCL and following that w/ a stay at WDW. The port transfers were $$$ and having our own vehicle would be necessary. I resolved myself to the road trip and planned accordingly.
As it ended up, we booked the AutoTrain instead and it was wonderful! Short drive (~3 hours) to Northern Virginia, overnight on the train and then an hour from Sanford.
The cruise and our WDW stay were both amazing and magical. We were scheduled to check out Friday morning, spend the day in the parks and then head to my ILs to visit overnight (they lived ~20min away in Davenport). Saturday we would catch the train back north from Sanford and be home Sunday afternoon.
Unfortunately the universe had other plans for us. Hurricane Irene was heading to the US and the entire eastern seaboard was being evacuated. On Thursday, I received a call from Amtrak while we were riding Peter Pan telling us that our train home was cancelled and they weren’t going to run them again until at least Tuesday if not later. We quickly regrouped, cancelled all of our WDW plans for Friday. Checked out Friday morning, had a quick visit w/ the ILs, then hit the road to drive home.
Since shore points east of the I95 corridor were being evacuated, we opted for an inland route to avoid traffic and the storm. It took us until late Saturday night to get home. We thankfully didn’t see rain until heading east across the PA Turnpike (also saw downed trees across the roadway and lots of damage).
This was one of the most miserable road trips I have ever been on …and I spent 7 years as a young adult touring the country on 30 year old coach buses!! Nothing awful happened. The kids were fine with enough amusments that we had packed for the 3 hour trips back and forth to VA, but for us it was extremely stressful. While I realize that figuring out our route as we went, finding a hotel Friday night, and using the (longer) inland route to avoid the storm/evacuations was situational and would not be part of a planned trip, that drive home cemented our decision to never road trip to FL for our WDW vacations.
All that to say, while I am more than happy to head out west for 10 hours…we have completely ruled out driving south for 18 to WDW. Amtrak’s AutoTrain or flying is far preferred.